- last night i went to a kobie and kavin's blue and gold dinner after work. I was really rushing to get there on time because they were giving kobie an award and i was going with 4 kids alone! So when i get there i see a GIRL trish in my old primary class growing up, (we were close sometimes depending on who the cool one was at that time) anyways, i have seen her at a couple of church things but i never saw her with her kids. So i walk in and she motioons for me to come down by her ( there were no seats and i was wondering why i had to push all 4 of my kids up between tables to go say hi and then back to the front to find a seat for all of us!) So, i do just so im not rude! cuz im not rude that much!(shut up cherise) i get there and shes like hi and gives this nasty look like ugggghhh anyways it was ugly. so heres how the conversation went:
her: hi
(then her crazy look)
me: so where are your baby or babies, ive seen u a couple times but never w them
her: (another crazy look) ummm lucky me, this is .... this is ..... o and this is my husband.....
her (to her husband and people around): this is mindy mecham
me: i kind of laugh because nobody calls me mindy anymore
her: whats funny? (snappy)
me: o nobody calls me mindy anymore it just was kind of funny.
her: (crazy look before she turned her chair away from me) mindy melinda its all the same!
me: ummmmm ok awkward.
(i turned around and was a little upset because i was A. already uncomfortable. and B. the bi%$H already knew it, and i think she was tryin to be a snob like back in the day!) As the night went on i was getting angrier and angrier! Me being a mecham didnt come back w a quick response uggghhhh. Just had to vent for a min!
So, now im over that! Cherise came this weekend and visited w her family. i was kind of a homebody just wasnt feelin too hot! But i always love when she comes! This time isaiah came to me and would even give hugs and kisses. Marcos got his new name napolion, because he would talk and it reminded me of napolian dynamite. GOSH aunt mindy! He did inform me that he is mexican now though. That boy is so funny! Well, i miss u cherise and want u to come back now! Ron maybe next time u wont have shingles or the flu or whatever u had, so u can visit her too! (ya we heard about 5 diff sicknesses u had sunday!)
2 comments:
Okay, so don't hate me if I call you Mindy because that's how I know you. You will always be that cute little Mindy to me! :o) Same with Kim--I don't know if I could seriously call him Ron. Now you have me wondering about who the rude girl was that you ran into. Hmmmmmmm...I hope it was a big, big misunderstanding because it doesn't sound like she was very nice to you. Don't you hate when you don't think of a good come-back until later.
Mindy, Mindy, Mindy..... If you ever find yourself in that situation again you need to call. If you remember the teleconference sessions from the past, there is plenty of support, and we could have come up with a few ways to put her in line. I don't think she was purposely being rude, Maybe she was surprised to see you, and didn't recognize you now that you are black....
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